Dear E,

Has it ever happened to you, that no matter how long it takes you don't learn anything unless someone else who is not a direct relation to you tells you?

It happened to me last night, I had really never seen anything wrong with the way I was.  Aparently there is alot I need to work with, but I figured if Ian could put up with them without insulting me then its okay.  However, I never calculated, that it was a problem with others.

Its hard to change bad habbits as they say those die hard.  But I want to so bad, I want to be perfect.  Of course, I know no one is perfect.

I don't want to be overly sensitive but I am, I can't help it, I don't like people making comments about me much. Sometimes, they hurt my feelings and no one takes notice, even though they are right in what they say, they don't know what is behind it, or why it is done.

Guess is just things that happen.  Life goes on.

Jessenator
It's most likely a 12 year old boy that ratted him out.
 
ichase
Ratted him out about what? That he made another music video? Oh no! The secret is out!
 
Jessenator 
No, that Michael mollested him and he told the police, so MJ wants one more bump in the bed.

ichase 
Riiiiiiiight, I'm so sure someone would make a music video about that. Besides, just in case you didn't hear, he was found innocent of those charges from that kid and his mother were going around trying to scam stars for money with.   

Jessenator
Just in case you didn't hear, they found OJ Simpson not guilty, too, but they found loads od evidence against him. Besides, MJ admitted to owning child pornography in court. And why would you flee the country if you were actually innocent.
  
ichase 
I was doubtful that he could admit owning child pornography in court and not go to jail, since it's illegal to posses it. So I check on Wikipedia and found the following....
  
ichase 
As part of the evidence to show attraction to boys, the prosecution introduced two books featuring nude prepubescent boys. The books were seized from Jackson in 1993 and never returned. The prosecution portrayed them as being child erotica or pornography, showing a sexual attraction to boys....
  
ichase 
However, the defense characterized them as wholly non-sexual, non-pornographic, art books. The defense pointed out that the books were legal to possess, and Jackson was therefore never charged with owning them. While both featured nudity, neither book contains any depictions of sexual acts. Jackson lost possession of the books long before meeting the current accuser, which is why the books were a part of the 1108 evidence. He has never been accused of showing these two books to any boys.
  
ichase 
It goes on to say that at least one of the books was given to him by a fan, but that doesn't really matter since they are not child pornography to begin with as they are legal to own.

As for leaving the country, he had plenty of oppourtunity to do that before the trial if he wanted to "flee". But leaving the country after the trial is not hard to imagine, as he has many friends all around the world.
 
thriller 
The difference between OJ and MJ is that Tom Sneddon made doubly sure that MJ would have no loop holes, since he pointed out how much the laws had changed since 1993, that this time he wouldn't moonwalk his way out of court unless he could prove beyond all reasonable doubt that he was innocent.
  
thriller
Secondly, MJ is a really smart person and I don't think he would have blanky admited to owning child porn because if he had no juror or judge in his right mind would have let him go free as ichase has pointed out. And in case you didn't know, Tom's definition of child porn was MJ's vast collection of Anne Geddes books and photos. Which the judge pointed out were not illegal to own.
 
thriller 
And lastly flee from what? As far as I know, MJ was here in this country and in Santa Barbara, from the first day of his trial to the very last day of it, whatever he did after that is not fleeing it called a VACATION!
  
Jessenator 
Do you really consider purchasing a house and declaring immigration a vacation? I'm sorry, but when I go on vacation, I stay a week or two and I don't declare immigration.
  
thriller 
I'm sorry don't compare your sorry excuse of a vacation with MJ's kind of a vacation. Cuz unlike you he can afford more than a few weeks. That's right and don't u dare bring up the he is broke crap, because I will believe that the day he files for welfare. FYI that is still not fleeing its called owning real estate.
  
Jessenator 
Umm. Filing immigration usually doesn't mean he's going on vacation. It means you've moved out of the country. Not very smart, are you  

thriller
That is called relocation, not fleeing try harder LMAO. Dang ichase is gonna get so many views on this video LOL

Jessenator 
try harder? Your the one that called filing immigration vacation.
  
thriller 
No, what i was calling a vacation was MJ leaving the country, because he has done it before for long periods at a time. Now so what if he filed immigration that is still not fleeing, that is a process that goes with reloaction, or extended vacations, such as the ones he has taken before.

LMAO, guess you know who won that, argument, yeah baby, me. Oh my, I had fun with that one.  At first I thought he or she would be a real challenge but then Ian corrected me and said he seemed to back pedaling his arguments. LOL Which is so true, poor guy, he really should think twice than to argue with an MJ Fan, we are fans for a reason, because we see beyond the media crap.

Dear E,

What a day of surprises!  People change, or always been as they are but it is now that we aren’t so blind to see it.

Don't you just hate it when that happens.  Well anyways, it does.  That is life in its entire splendor.